If there was one thing I could teach young people today (and maybe everyone!), it would be that the world is not black and white. There are many shades of color. There is a Facebook meme that points out “6 + 3 = 9, but so does 5 + 4.” It goes on to say, “The way you do things is not always the only way to do them. Respect other people’s way of thinking.”
In truth, if you know anything about math, there are MANY ways to come up with 9. Just like life, there are many ways to live it: many types of careers, activities, music, ways to travel, types of homes, cars, relationships…I think you get the point. There are many different ways to solve many different problems. But if we stick to a “black and white” way of thinking, better, more efficient ways of problem solving would go undiscovered.
If we were all the same, thought exactly the same way, did things the exact same way, what a boring world this would be! Nothing new would ever be invented. Nothing exciting would ever come about. There would be nothing to pique our curiosity. The world would be, well, black and white. Wouldn’t that be sad?
Instead, there is a vastness to this world that is amazing and wonderful. This near limitlessness applies, not only to the landscape, but to the people on it, the thought processes of the people and the utter variety of things to do! And, while there are so many things to consider, not everyone wants to do the same things. After all, there are more than 7.6 billion people living on this world in 195 different countries. In 2014, a blog on National Geographic stated there were 117 million different lakes on this Earth! Black and white doesn’t even begin to describe our reality, even though so many people would make it so.
Just to expand a little on the whole black and white mentality, here’s a simple example. I like to bake…a lot! My family couldn’t possibly eat everything I bake, because, well, they’d be the size of a house, so I take baked goods to work and share. But, with baking comes problems. Some people are gluten or corn intolerant. Some are allergic to peanuts, dairy, chocolate or peppers. Still, some despise cream cheese icing and nuts. There are others who don’t like chocolate (yeah, I know, I couldn’t believe it, either!!!)! If we were thinking in terms of black and white, we’d have fully gluten or corn baked goods, or none. But, thinking in “many shades,” I now bake vegan cakes and muffins and am about to learn how to bake with alternative flours! Score one for “many shades” thinking!
Want another simple example? Pens…yes, pens! While I am required to use a certain type pen at work, my very favorite pen is a Pentel RSVP, medium point with black ink. If you’ve ever walked down the school supply aisle at any store, you know there are a multitude of different pens out there. Just to name a few for you, there’s Bic, Paper Mate, Zebra, Pilot, Uni-Ball, Sharpie, and, of course, Pentel. There are also ballpoint, fountain, gel, roller ball and felt tipped pens. Bic, alone, makes a huge variety: Xtra Life, Xtra Smooth, Xtra Comfort, Xtra Bold, Velocity Retractable, Atlantis Original Retractable, Soft Feel Retractable, and this doesn’t include their everyday, plain old original Bic Cristal, the Clic Stic or the variety of colors of ink they offer. I think you’re getting the picture! What if I got to choose and force everyone to use Pentel RSVP?
Here are a few other simple examples, maybe in less detail. Did you know there are around 4,200 different religions in the world? I wonder how many of us could have guessed that? What about clothing and shoes? With how many brands are you familiar? How about different colleges and universities, just in the US? Here’s one, what about different types and breeds of pets? Plants? What if someone got to choose the world’s religion and the dress code. What if there were only one type cat and one type dog, and two types of plants? Could you be happy with that?
The world is not black and white. There are SO many different shades…SO many, and that’s what makes it so fascinating. All the extraordinary variety! All the different people, cultures, animals, art, scenery, ways to travel, places to live, food and beliefs. This seems extreme, when considering thought patterns in black and white, but is it really? By thinking in terms of black and white, we limit ourselves into following one of two directions. Why would we ever want do that when there are SO many directions in which to go? If there were only a couple of thought patterns, nothing new would ever come about!
Thinking outside the box is what drives creative processes and innovation. It motivates us to do better in many different ways. If we limit ourselves to black and white thinking, we limit what we can achieve and who and what we can become! Should we really want to put limits on ourselves…especially when the only thing that can come of better innovation, more creativity and being better people is a better world! Think about it!